Y.E.N. Life-Tip of the Week!


The 25 Lister! If you are in a relationship. Get a piece of paper and list 25 things you love about your partner. Place the paper somewhere they will find it. Stay quiet and enjoy the gift you gave! Note: It’s surprising, some of the things you’ll write on the list are some of the things you complain the most about. Enjoy Love! – Scroll down to read today’s You Evolving Now Blog!

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I’m Andre Young, Founder & CEO of You Evolving Now, author, and speaker… I invite you to start living the life of your dreams! You Evolving Now, LLC is a life-enrichment company focused on positivity, personal growth, and relationship growth; allowing men and women, students, employees, and YOU to EVOLVE and live the life of your dreams with my various Membership Packages, Website video content, Virtual Life-Enrichment Mentoring Sessions, App with life-tips, Adult Division, College Division, Speaking Engagements, Retreats, and more!

Y.E.N. Membership Packages

Free Membership  – Download, YEN Push App, and receive Free Life-Enrichment Content to your iPhone throughout the week!

Website Membership – YEN Push APP, Member’s-Only Website Video Content from Y.E.N. Founder Andre Young! – $5.00 per month!

Full+ Membership  – YEN Push App, Website Video Content, and Membership to the You Evolving Now Club for monthly Forums and fun community Events (local to Berks County Pa) – $24.99 per month!

Full++ Membership – YEN Push App, Website Video Content, Membership to the You Evolving Now Club for monthly Forums and Events (local to Berks County Pa), and 4 Virtual Mentoring Sessions with Founder, Andre Young – $29.99 per month! 

Y.E.N. Virtual Mentoring Sessions Only with Founder Andre Young – $128 per month!

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EVOLVE with Andre Young with the 7 Ways to Love Podcast Interview.

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You Evolving Now Blog: Keep a Great Relationship… Beat Your Next Temper Tantrum!

Have you ever walked through a store and bumped into the awkward situation of a child having a temper tantrum in the middle of the aisle? You have that immediate reaction… “wouldn’t be my child!”, you’re immediately turned off, you feel the frustration and embarrassment of the parent and family. You do everything you can to get out of that situation as quickly as possible. It’s hard to see, hear, and witness the either catering or aggressive response of the parent. Temper tantrums are ugly, but a part of human nature and don’t go away after childhood. It carriers over to adulthood and if YOU were being honest with YOU… I’m asking, what does your temper tantrum look like?

That question was really for you to answer and explore without shame or guilt… it’s the only way to get to the other side! If you are in a relationship or in your various roles as a parent, son/daughter, co-worker, sibling, etc… you are going to get upset when you don’t get what you need, want or think you deserve. How you react will either hurt or help the situation. The key words were need, want, and deserve. Your needs are important and necessary and must be discussed to address, improve, and EVOLVE. Wants are understandable, important, make life more fun, but not necessary. Finally… beware of “I deserve”. Truth is… you don’t deserve anything. What you are really saying is, “After all I do for you and in this relationship… you owe me____________”. Sounds ugly when you say it like that huh? Well, that’s what it sounds like to the person you said it to. Perhaps it would be more useful and EVOLVED to express your love, dedication to the relationship, your needs, wants, and explore realistic and fair ways to make it all happen.

In order to EVOLVE and beat your temper tantrum cycle, it’s imperative for you to know your pattern! How do you respond when you are angry or frustrated? Equally important to know is anger is not the emotion to pay attentions to… anger stems from hurt. If you are only respond to your feeling anger and not your hurt your temper tantrum cycle will last longer and have a bigger effect on your relationship. Focusing on your anger will continue to increase your righteous pain; allowing you to justify all of the horrible things you have said, done, and are thinking of doing. Focusing on your hurt allows you the opportunity to heal, improve, and EVOLVE!

Most people will speed past hurt, go right to anger, temper tantrum by either explode, withdrawing into silent treatment, withholding love and emotion, then have to deal with the consequences of their tantrum. Once you are aware of your pattern, understand why you are hurt… you now have the opportunity to speed up your pattern and be a part of the solution rather than the problem. If your fights last 3 days… get them down to one; if they last 1, get it to half-day, etc. Truth is… if you share space with someone (emotional or physical) you are not always going to get along and the storm is coming… will you be ready?

Here are a few tips to stop your next temper tantrum:

  • Take a breath and listen. Everything said and done to you does not require an immediate response
  • If it is still bothering you… make and take time to explore your offender’s WHY. Why would they say or do what they did? How do you understand them as a person? What is going on in their life… or their past? None of this provides an excuse for what was done, but rather a starting point of understanding. Chances are, you have picked loving and great person to be around and share life and time with… if that is true, perhaps they are going through life turmoil (big or small) or you have taken it wrong. If you have not picked a loving and caring person to be around… perhaps it’s time to self-reflect and adjust your team!
  • Share your concern and use my Positive Sandwich. Start with what you like/love about the relationship, then what concern you have, and end on a positive of hoping to resolve. In my newest book, 7 Ways to Love, I dedicate a chapter to the “I’s” vs. “We’s”. Yes, it’s important to use “I” statements when explaining how YOU feel, but my rule of thumb is… in a serious conversation, if the amount of times you say “I” outnumbers the amount of times you say “We”… you and your relationship will lose!
  • Allow the person to digest your information. You have been thinking about this in your head and practicing what and how to say it. But, it’s their first time hearing it… let them digest it for a while if necessary.
  • Lastly, focus on love and relationship building… focus on problem-solving mode… not right or wrong mode. The language you chose to speak at this time will be crucial in you living the relationship of your dreams!

Enjoy your evolution, Happy EVOLVING, and become a You Evolving Now Member today to EVOLVE your life, your relationships, and YOU with my Virtual Mentoring, our Life-Enrichment Club’s monthly Forums & Events, Retreats, Video Content, and more at www.youevolvingnow.com !!! Download the You Evolving Now App (YEN Push) for your iPhone today for your daily EVOLUTION!!!

written by: Andre Young

 

 

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As an author, speaker, and Founder & CEO of You Evolving Now, LLC it’s my mission to impact lives and relationships of men and women everywhere; allowing YOU to live the life of your dreams! My 7 Ways to Love shares how to have an EVOLVED relationship with your partner, those close to you, and most importantly, YOURSELF! I am excited to present the 7 key points that prove to make or break relationships and life satisfaction. As you read and EVOLVE, I encourage you to think about the message, ponder my questions, and most importantly live your answers!

 

 

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What is You Evolving Now?

You Evolving Now, LLC is a life-enrichment company focused on positivity, personal, and relationship growth; allowing men and women, students, employees, and YOU to EVOLVE and live the life of your dreams with our Website video content, Life-Enrichment Mentoring Sessions with Founder & CEO Andre Young, Adult Division, College Division, Speaking Engagements, Retreats, and more!

We are all busy, sometimes too busy to be better. When you are ready to be better, not just busy. When you are ready for more out of life, your relationship, and lifestyle. You Evolving Now is for YOU! Maybe you’re successful and have all you’ve ever wanted or you’re in survival mode and continue asking, “Is this it?” The answer is, NO. Come EVOLVE!!! Begin to live the life of your dreams with You Evolving Now!

Unleash your full potential, launching you to a better life and better you, focused on all aspects of life and all roles you play as an individual, partner, parent, professional, etc.!

“Stop being busy and start being better.” – Andre Young

 

 

Become a member and EVOLVE with all we offer!

  • You Evolving Now Quote/Question of the Day! (free)
  • You Evolving Now Blogs – EVOLVE as you read my blogs; sharing life-altering content from my years as a therapist, marriage counselor, and CEO (free)
  • You Evolving Now Life-Enrichment Session – EVOLVE with 5 weekly virtual scheduled sessions with You Evolving Now Founder & CEO, Andre Young, to begin to live the life of your dreams!
  • You Evolving Now Thought of the Week – Founder Andre Young, answers and asks questions from his book. Sharing life experiences propelling you toward success in the various roles you play.
  • You Evolving Now Monthly Vlog – Founder Andre Young presents his topic of the month; focused on personal development and improved relationships.
  • You Evolving Now Monthly Life-Enrichment Video – Become well rounded as you learn from various professionals in the areas of finance, real estate, cooking, fashion, and more!
  • You Evolving Now in 3! – Watch or participate in my interview show; focused on allowing our members dreams and passions to come true!
  • Attend our Life-Enrichment Club’s Monthly Forum – EVOLVE as you connect with other positive and motivated members as we discuss life topics in a fun and goal-oriented way; allowing you to live the life of your dreams! (Full Membership Only)
  • Attend Monthly Fun Community Events
  • You Evolving Now Virtual Life-Enrichment Mentoring Sessions – EVOLVE with You Evolving Now Founder & CEO Andre Young for 4 virtual sessions; allowing you to EVOLVE and begin a new habit to live the life of your dreams!
  • Discounted rates for 7 Ways to Love Retreats!

 

 

Welcome to a new and EVOLVED life! Our club is focused on positivity, personal, and relationship growth; celebrating the successes of other members, discussing important life topics positively and with purpose, and providing perspective during today’s chaotic pace of life. It allows men and women of various ages and backgrounds the ability to socialize in a comfortable and non-threatening environment. Our Life-Enrichment Club provides an opportunity to be heard and encourages people to reach their full potential as individuals, significant other, professionals, parents, and all other roles you play! Members attend a monthly Forum to socialize and discuss a variety of life-topics, as well as attending our fun monthly community events (Hump Day Happy Hours, Wing Nights, Bowling, etc.!). You Evolving Now is also active in the community with monthly fun events and assist and our charity of assisting families in transition; providing gift cards for fun community experiences to recently separated or divorced men and women with children.

 

What Is a Forum?

Our Forums are the crux of what we are! Forums are the monthly meeting for You Evolving Now members in the community. They provide members an opportunity to gather with other motivated people focused on living and maintaining a positive lifestyle to reach their full potential in every aspect of life. Members share their “Positive” of the last month and receive the gift of applause. You have done your duties of the day both at work and at home… receive the gift of an applause for your accomplishments both big and small. Explore life-topics such as dating, fun, money, gratitude, etc. Usually, these topics are discussed when you are in crisis mode; let’s have a positive, constructive, and fun conversation allowing you to share learn, and grow in a diverse and fun setting! Share your personal goal for the next month and benefit from being or assisting the You Evolving Now Person of the Month. Members rally around this man or woman over the next month; focusing on his or her goal, dream, passion, and success! Find out about our fun monthly community events at the Event Tab. Come EVOLVE with us!


Provide a powerful new way to impact the lives of your employees for Free! Andre Young, speaker, author, Founder & CEO of You Evolving Now, LLC will present an inspiring and motivating presentation to your company about the importance of EVOLVING in all roles at work, home, and in life; allowing your employees to EVOLVE and live the life of their dreams! Simply attend, download the You Evolving Now App, schedule time to sit with Founder Andre Young, and EVOLVE personally and relationally with a plethora of life-enrichment features!

Workplace Impact!

Personal Growth and Relationship Growth at Work!!!

  • Your employees have lives outside of work and play various roles: parents, partners, professionals, sons/daughters, etc. Disruption in these roles can transfer into work leading to lower production, absenteeism, and conflict. Let You Evolving Now positively impact your employees in the various roles they play as husbands/wives, boyfriends/girlfriends, mothers/fathers, co-workers, friends, etc.!

 

Community Impact!

You Evolving Now Life-Enrichment Club

Employees can attend monthly Forums in the community (The Inn at Reading in Reading, Pa). Members focus on positivity and building as they share and celebrate the positives of their month, discuss topics rarely discussed: marriage, fun, dating, finances, success, gratitude, etc., and set personal goals. By experiencing and listening to a variety of responses and viewpoints in a diverse setting… growth occurs; led by Founder & CEO, Andre Young.

  • Many men and women are busy and simply existing and focused on “making it” through the day; feeling stuck in their job, relationship, and life. The Club also offers fun monthly community events. Meet new people in your community, network, and have fun!

 

Home Impact!

You Evolving Now’s Personal & Relationship Growth APP and Website: www.youevolvingnow.com

 

  • It’s hard to focus on your job when your relationship is falling apart. You Evolving Now can help with that! Proactive quotes, questions, and mentoring allow employees to EVOLVE at home as well as work! Employees EVOLVE their relationship as You Evolving Now asks powerful questions and poses various Y.E.N. Challenges via the App and website!

Wellness and Lifestyle Impact!

  • EVOLVE with Andre Young’s Virtual Life-Enrichment Mentoring Sessions! Employees can accept Virtual Mentoring to begin the process of fulfilling their dreams. Employees can also take advantage of You Evolving Now’s Dreamleader Team focused on financial security, getting fit, real estate issues, therapeutic services, and business coaching!

Free Content – $0

  • Download the free You Evolving Now App, YEN Push, to your iPhone. Click on App and allow push notifications and receive life-enrichment features 1-2 per week!

Motivational Membership – $5.00 Per Month – App and Website-Only Content 

Life-Enrichment Membership – $24.99 Per Month – App, Website Content, and Forums & Events 

EVOLVE Membership – $34.99 Per Month – App, Website Content, Forums & Events, and Virtual Mentoring Sessions 

 


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What Is Young Y.E.N?

Graduate better… not just smarter with You Evolving Now! Young’s You Evolving Now  is a powerful Club and movement of positivity, healthy living, and life-enrichment; for various school settings and universities. The focus is providing motivated students the opportunity to spend time with like-minded individuals interested in being their best selves, becoming leaders, and EVOLVING! Members attend Forums to celebrate the successes of others, discuss life-inspiring topics, and provide perspective during today’s chaotic pace of life. Y.Y.E.N. allow individuals of various ages and backgrounds the ability to socialize in a comfortable and non-threatening environment with an opportunity to be heard; encouraging members to reach their full potential as individuals, partners, parents, siblings, workers, etc. Members attend weekly Forums; exploring topics such as: love, success, dating, anger/frustration, control, domestic violence, etc.  Y.Y.E.N. offer three events (per semester) for members and students; Financial Fun Night, Fitness Fun Night, Night of Motivation, and more; ending with our powerful Dedication to Excellence Ceremony! The Club also offers the possibility of two internships opportunities during the academic year; with fun campus Y.Y.E.N. campus activities.

Contact us to find out about our Y.Y.E.N. Packages:

Motivational Package, Life-Enrichment Package, and EVOLVE Package!

Motivational Package: 1 Y.Y.E.N. Forum and 1 Event in 1 semester

Life- Enrichment Package:  2 Y.Y.E.N Forums, and 2 Events (per semester), and You Evolving Now T-Shirts

EVOLVE Package: 5 Y.Y.E.N. Forums, 3 Events per semester. Also includes internship/employee package, leadership training, and the Dedication to Excellence Ceremony, EVOLVE Books and You Evolving Now T-Shirts per student!

Note: Universities are encouraged to create a package that best fits the current needs and concerns of students and Contact Founder, Andre Young, for further information.

 

Y.Y.E.N. Mission

My name is Andre Young, Founder & President of You Evolving Now, LLC. I have a Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology with a specialty in Marital and Family Counseling. I have provided a variety of therapeutic services in the Lehigh Valley and Berks County: Individual, Group, Family, and Crisis Therapy. It is important to note that Y.E.N. does not provide therapy, however the environment is therapeutic in nature. My mission is to provide a place where men and women are comfortable and encouraged to learn from one another; with a focus on becoming inspired in all roles we play as sons/daughters, siblings, partners, parents, workers, students, etc. Many of our young people will graduate smarter, but ill prepared for the roles and expectations awaiting them in the “real world. Let’s Evolve!

Learning Objectives
Increased awareness regarding the importance of various significant roles as: individuals, students, sibling, sons/daughters, boyfriends/girlfriends, and future parents; leading to more intentional positive interactions with self and others

_ Increase awareness of student’s various roles as: individuals, students, sibling, sons/daughters, boyfriends/girlfriends, future husbands/wives and parents; leading to more positive and impactful interactions and lifestyle.

– Increased abstract thinking related to variety of real-life topics

Members attend weekly Forums in which they share and celebrate positives of the week, explore topics rarely discussed, and set personal goals. By experiencing and listening to a variety of responses and viewpoints students EVOLVE by learning from and with one another.

– Enhanced interpersonal skills and life skills for the ever-evolving young professional

Many graduating students will enter the workforce in the field of psychology, social work, and other human service fields; the more self-aware, understanding, empathetic, and well-rounded the young professional…the bigger the impact on their clientele, organization, and lifestyle. Y.Y.E.N. facilitate student growth with weekly Forums and Events focused on professionalism and lifestyle enhancement.

– Develop a personal rating scale of their existence as an individual and their various roles as siblings, sons/daughters, friends, students, employees.

Y.Y.E.N. provides a rating scale for the various roles students play. Allowing students increased self-awareness and an opportunity to EVOLVE; intentionally improving influential relationships.

– Increased tolerance and understanding for differing opinions and opposing views

Participation in Forums and Events promote diversity and life learning.

 

– Overall increase of daily positivity, motivation, and life-enrichment practices

Students are encouraged to visit and EVOLVE at You Evolving Now’s website www.youevolvingnow.com EVOLVE with the Daily Quote/Question, Blogs, and life enriching videos!

_ You Evolving Now Internships and Training Program

You Evolving Now Training Program focuses on developing student leaders, group facilitation skills, creating opportunity for residual income post-graduation, and more!

_ Increased knowledge based by attending events focused on cooking, fashion, finances, entrepreneurship, car maintenance, relationships, and more; creating more well-rounded students: Positivity, healthy living, and life enrichment are the roots and key elements of You Evolving Now. The experience provides the opportunity for young adults to explore real-life topics in a safe and positive environment for the purpose of growth, understanding, and change.

Positivity, healthy living, and life enrichment are the roots and key elements of the Evolving Now Experience. The Experience provides the opportunity for young adults to explore real-life topics in a safe and positive environment for the purpose of growth, understanding, and change. Our daily Quote/Question of the Day offers inspiration and thought provoking content; challenging you to EVOLVE into your best self.

Y.Y.E.N. Internships/Employment/Volunteers
Y.Y.E.N. look to give back to universities; offering Undergraduate and Graduate students the opportunity for personal and professional growth. Internships provide experience and enhancements in meeting and group facilitation, abstract thinking, and networking. Y.Y.E.N. offer a positive work environment as our mission, forums, events, and trainings focus on life enrichment relationship enhancement, and personal development. Students can earn either: internship hours, financial compensation, or community service hours towards graduation; learning life enhancing information and skills related to financial investments, realty concerns, networking, and more! Your students are welcome to come EVOLVE with us, build their resume, and become their best selves.
Internship/Employee Duties
Attending Y.Y.E.N. Training throughout the year on campuses or on-line.

– Facilitate Y.T.E.N. ten (10) Forums throughout the academic year

– Co-facilitate Y.Y.E.N. Forums that have existing Evolving Now Staff members

– Facilitate Y.Y.E.N. Events: Introducing events and presenters. Closing events in a professional manner. Five (5) per academic year

– Event presentations will be outlined by Y.Y.E.N. President, Andre Young. Interns will research presenters for events, schedule, and confirm.

– Facilitate two (2) Y.Y.E.N. promotional events per semester on campus (at cafeteria, exercise center, or dormitory)

– Contact Founder & President, Andre Young, to recap and enhance necessary facilitation skills.

– Distribute, collect, and manage paperwork: sign-in sheets, evaluation forms, Forum and Event notifications

– Note: Paid Employment Optional

Y.Y.E.N. Social Clubs Current and Past Locations
Young’s You Evolving Now are Social Clubs for colleges and universities; focused on providing motivated students the opportunity to spend time with like-minded individuals interested in maintaining a positive, healthy, and life-enriched lifestyle. Members gather to celebrate the successes of others, discuss life-inspiring topics, and provide perspective during today’s chaotic pace of life. Y.Y.E.N. allow individuals of various ages and backgrounds the ability to socialize in a comfortable and non-threatening environment with an opportunity to be heard; encouraging members to reach their full potential as individuals, partners, parents, siblings, workers, etc. Members attend weekly Forums (separately); exploring topics such as: love, success, dating, anger/frustration, control, domestic violence, etc. Y.Y.E.N. offer five events (per semester) for members and the school; ending with our powerful Dedication to Excellence Ceremony! The Social Club also offers four internships during the academic year.

Speaking Engagements & Workshops

Leadership is one of the most widely discussed topics in the world. Its importance is monumental in the concept of business, success, and life. However, true leadership begins with your ability to lead YOU first. Learn how to lead, EVOLVE, and live the life of your dreams!

EVOLVE and Lead is a 3-hour workshop focused on one’s ability to lead YOU first, transform language, and build leadership and success strategies for life! Also available in a 1 ½ talking presentation for larger groups 25+ attendees (includes 25 signed EVOLVE Books).

  • Droning Through the Decades (What your life will look like if you don’t lead)
  • What is a Leader?
  • Rate Self
  • Success is a Language
  • Formula for Success
  • Building Your Team
  • My 4C’s of Connecting

Truth is… you are either in a relationship right now, just got out of one, or about to be in one. It would be a shame to not have the necessary knowledge about the most important feeling and concept on the planet… Love! Learn the 7 Ways that prove to make or break relationships and begin to live the life of your dreams! Learn how to Get Your Triangle Right, how to become a Dreamleader, how to C’s your house, manage the ruts, and so much more! (includes 25 signed 7 Ways to Love books)

7 Ways to Love is a 3-hour workshop mixed with presentation from my 7 Ways to Love book and forum style conversation; covering topics and chapters from my book. Also available in a 1 ½ talking presentation for larger groups 25+ attendees (includes 25 signed 7 Ways to Love Books).

  • Get Your Triangle Right
  • Relationship Board Meetings
  • Teamwork Makes the Dream Work
  • C’s the Relationship
  • Construction Talk
  • Be Bobblehead Free
  • Be a Dreamleader

Learn about the Y.Y.E.N. Life-Enrichment Presentation and Contact Us today.

Mayleen DeFreece, W.O.M.E.N. Facilitator

Mayleen DeFreece, Y.Y.E.N.Facilitator

Jackie Wise, Y.M.E.N. Facilitator

Jackie Wise, Y.Y.E.N. Facilitator

Meet Our Alvernia Crew

Meagan Forster, Alvernia W.O.M.E.N. Intern

Meagan Forster, Alvernia Y.Y.M.E.N. Intern

Jeb Walston, Alvernia Y.M.E.N. Intern

Jeb Walston, Alvernia Y.Y.E.N. Intern

Meet Our Kutztown University Crew

Steven Robinson, K.U. Y.M.E.N. Intern

Steven Robinson, K.U. Y.Y.E.N. Intern

Ashae Felder, K.U. Intern

Ashae Felder, K.U. Intern

Julian Grey, K.U Y.M.E.N. Intern

Julian Grey, KU Y.Y.E.N. Intern

Seglinda Harrington, K.U. W.O.M.E.N. Intern

Seglinda Harrington, KU Y.Y.E.N. Intern

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