Can you imagine your boss or job telling you to your face… “We don’t need you”. “We would be fine without you or better without you”. “We made it this far without you and you can leave”. “I don’t want to hear anything you have to say”. Or, “You’re dispensable and can be replaced”. Can […]
Single-parenting… literally the hardest job in the world! I remember my days as a single parent of three children. The amount of time spent in the kitchen preparing meals, washing dishes, and cleaning up… as soon as it was over, it was time to do it all again! Talking and playing with the kids as
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It’s scary how people can become comfortable with almost anything. If it happens to you and around you long enough… comfortability will eventually set in. Whether it’s becoming comfortable and desensitized to violence; growing up in a “tough” neighborhood, abuse in a terrible relationship, money and privilege in a rich family, or dangerously just existing
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Did you know, You Evolving Now began because of language? Actually, for a lot of reasons, but language was a huge one. I became so frustrated and turned-off by the amount of negativity and pessimism exclaimed on a daily basis; people complaining about the weather, their sports team, their relationship, and/or their life. Enough already!
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After all those years of schooling, plus your natural ability, determination, and work ethic… you never thought you’d be working two or more jobs just to make ends meet. It doesn’t seem fair; and unfortunately… most of the people you know are in the same position. This has also played out in relationships; after all
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Something happens… and you have a thought, a perception, a judgment. You value your thoughts, trust your thoughts, and hold them dear. However, one of the most dangerous things you can do is to walk around with only your thought rattling around in your head! As smart as you are… it’s still only one unchallenged
Dreaming is amazing! All things are possible in your dreams; the colors more vivid, the abilities more profound, the experience more deep and abstract. Have you ever awoken from your awesome dream and try to force yourself back to sleep just to get back to dreamland! Having a dream for yourself and your life is
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Take the You Evolving Now Challenge! Say 3 things you are grateful for. Say 3 things you love about YOU. Say 3 things you love about your partner. Say 3 things you love about your kids. Now, go tell them! What you think, will impact how you feel, then what you do, and your consequences
Vision is an awesome thing; vision for your life, your future, professionally, personally, and relationally. Although vision is important and allows you a destination and helps to form paths to success… many struggle to begin their journey. Why? I recently spoke with a woman who shared her dissatisfaction with her lifestyle and current occupation. She
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My brother and I don’t see each other often, but when we do we have amazing conversations about life and people. On one occasion we were talking about emotional pain and how people manage and he said something that will stick with me forever. He said, “Hurt people hurt people” (Randy Young). It is so
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