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It never ceases to amaze me how quickly and easily people can gravitate to negativity. Of course this doesn’t apply to everyone… but, ask the majority of people, “How are you doing”… and let the complaints and grief begin. It usually begins with how much they dislike their job, the weather, or their relationship… and […]

If your current job is your passion… you are living the dream and great for you! There is nothing like waking up every day and doing what you love… it doesn’t even feel like work, rather an extension of who you are and what you are supposed to be doing with your talent and natural

The beginning of a new venter, era in your life, and relationship is exhilarating! Sometimes to the point of paralysis, caution, or intoxication. You may become swept away with the allure of an individual, the endless possibilities, and the bliss of newness! Yes… it’s a wonderful time to cherish, remember, and build upon. However, and

As a young teenager, I was in love with basketball; with dreams of playing in the NBA. I could envision myself dribbling down the court, making moves, and being great! I went to practice, played in games, and daydreamed as may kids do. Until one day… it was winter, cold, snow all over the ground,

I recently overheard a group of people talking about their relationships. One woman stated she was in a new relationship and they decided to “take it slow” because both had been through pain and hurt in the past. My initial thought was… “good for you”… my initial feeling was sadness for their past and; but

Can you imagine your boss or job telling you to your face… “We don’t need you”. “We would be fine without you or better without you”. “We made it this far without you and you can leave”. “I don’t want to hear anything you have to say”. Or, “You’re dispensable and can be replaced”. Can

Single-parenting… literally the hardest job in the world! I remember my days as a single parent of three children. The amount of time spent in the kitchen preparing meals, washing dishes, and cleaning up… as soon as it was over, it was time to do it all again! Talking and playing with the kids as

It’s scary how people can become comfortable with almost anything. If it happens to you and around you long enough… comfortability will eventually set in. Whether it’s becoming comfortable and desensitized to violence; growing up in a “tough” neighborhood, abuse in a terrible relationship, money and privilege in a rich family, or dangerously just existing

Did you know, You Evolving Now began because of language? Actually, for a lot of reasons, but language was a huge one. I became so frustrated and turned-off by the amount of negativity and pessimism exclaimed on a daily basis; people complaining about the weather, their sports team, their relationship, and/or their life. Enough already!

After all those years of schooling, plus your natural ability, determination, and work ethic… you never thought you’d be working two or more jobs just to make ends meet. It doesn’t seem fair; and unfortunately… most of the people you know are in the same position. This has also played out in relationships; after all